tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post114226420000509028..comments2024-03-06T19:21:15.708-05:00Comments on RealChoice: Somebody was looking for "aborting a 20 week fetus"Christina Duniganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04785550737493692252noreply@blogger.comBlogger59125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-19337192068055143102015-12-06T16:59:46.983-05:002015-12-06T16:59:46.983-05:00What about married couples who have used birth con...What about married couples who have used birth control that has failed to the point you have 7 children already 3 of which are Autistic then have a tubal and STILL get pregnant 3 yrs later! We can not financially afford the family we have, I can not physically or mentally hsndle another child, eith the meltdowns my son has I have already hurt myself on numerous occasions due to lack of support and help with the 3 disabled kids. Not too mention I am disabled myself. I do NOT want anymore kids, I want a hysterectomy and Dr's refuse, I do NOT want to be pregnant and carry this pregnancy. I can't afford to even have a legal abortion! What works for some does NOT work for all! Childcare is too high for the number of kids I already have to be able to work thrrefore I work when kids are in school. Have another baby and not ONLY can I not afford childcare to work at all but I'll be out of work 6+ weeks without pay. Where I work now fires people who are pregnant saying they're a high liability risk. I guess your being so judgmental are also against welfare right??! Well sorry but given do many people in my siruation if we were allwed to CHOOSE a hysterectomy then obviously shit like this wouldn't happen in the first place! Too many people need to get out of MY uterus because it's just that MINE NOT YOURS!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00801135580182302666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-84441014040784364222015-12-06T16:56:42.461-05:002015-12-06T16:56:42.461-05:00What about married couples who have used birth con...What about married couples who have used birth control that has failed to the point you have 7 children already 3 of which are Autistic then have a tubal and STILL get pregnant 3 yrs later! We can not financially afford the family we have, I can not physically or mentally hsndle another child, eith the meltdowns my son has I have already hurt myself on numerous occasions due to lack of support and help with the 3 disabled kids. Not too mention I am disabled myself. I do NOT want anymore kids, I want a hysterectomy and Dr's refuse, I do NOT want to be pregnant and carry this pregnancy. I can't afford to even have a legal abortion! What works for some does NOT work for all! Childcare is too high for the number of kids I already have to be able to work thrrefore I work when kids are in school. Have another baby and not ONLY can I not afford childcare to work at all but I'll be out of work 6+ weeks without pay. Where I work now fires people who are pregnant saying they're a high liability risk. I guess your being so judgmental are also against welfare right??! Well sorry but given do many people in my siruation if we were allwed to CHOOSE a hysterectomy then obviously shit like this wouldn't happen in the first place! Too many people need to get out of MY uterus because it's just that MINE NOT YOURS!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00801135580182302666noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-20238019703562271262015-03-05T17:36:13.931-05:002015-03-05T17:36:13.931-05:00Have you asked the child what they think is best f...Have you asked the child what they think is best for them? Or do you just tear it to pieces without giving the human person they are a choices?ProudHillbillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14305205710265854978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-41236032672833000052015-03-05T17:36:03.175-05:002015-03-05T17:36:03.175-05:00Have you asked the child what they think is best f...Have you asked the child what they think is best for them? Or do you just tear it to pieces without giving the human person they are a choices?ProudHillbillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14305205710265854978noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-32774048799571912252015-01-27T06:21:04.362-05:002015-01-27T06:21:04.362-05:00hello everyone, i am here to share my testimony on...hello everyone, i am here to share my testimony on how i conceived my baby. i have been married to my husband for 18years without no issue. my husband has been tested OK, i too have been tested. but no issue. i had problems with my in-laws even my husband started to have new affairs aside your marriage. it was a very terrible thing to bear. i became a laughing stock among my pear, i prayed and fasted and nothing happened. i was now seen as always unhappy. after many medical treatment and there is no way. i took it as i was born barren and i accepted every challenge that comes my way. i was even ready to pack out of my marital home and stay on my own because my husband was not given me any attention that i needed from him. i decided to focus on my job and try to live happy on my own. <br /> on this faithful day, i decided to check the net for updates on healthy living and i came across a story of a man who Dr EDIONWE helped his wife to conceive a baby. i decided to put a try because this has been my greatest problem in life. today i am a proud mom. words will not be enough to explained what this man did for me. he casted a pregnancy spell on me and i noticed i was pregnant on the 7th day after the spell. i am a happy mother, the pride of my family, a miracle in my town. i know there is someone in same condition and you feel there is no way. i urge you to contact him via email edionwesolutiontemple@gmail.com. This is the solution to every single mother around the globe. distance is not a barrier, he will surely make your dreams come trough. contact him today via email: edionwesolutiontemple@gmail.com. you want your lover back or any other miracle in your life, contact him today so the world can be a better place to live. bye!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05987743058485349994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-65614899496549757272015-01-19T17:45:42.809-05:002015-01-19T17:45:42.809-05:00I really want to thank priest Onome for the great ...I really want to thank priest Onome for the great work he did for me. after 2years of my marriage i and my husband was really desperate to have our own child but it was very hard we have seek for so many advice on how i can conceive and have my child but none of them work for me. but through the help of great priest Onome whose email address is priestonomeherbaltemple@outlook.com i was able to conceive 3weeks after him has send me a parcel mix of roots and herbals drugs. With so much joy in my heart i and my husband want to recommend priest Onome to everyone that has been looking for help for a long time to conceive to kindly contact priest Onome to help you with his roots and herbals drugs, contact him via his email address priestonomeherbaltemple@outlook.com<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00670974454208824486noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-33241572924257851132015-01-09T06:06:58.936-05:002015-01-09T06:06:58.936-05:00hello world, i guess am the first person to share ...hello world, i guess am the first person to share this good news about Dr Oko this year, i am VICTORIA from SOUTH AFRICA, i want to thank Dr Oko for helping me get pregnant for my husband when no doctor could help me, i have been to several hospital but they could not help me they all told me that i can not pregnant anymore cause some of my tube was block, but i did not gave up, i was hoping in God cause i know one day God will answer my prayed, the day i can never forgot in my life was the day i was searching how to get pregnant on the internet and saw a testimony of a lady who claim that Dr Oko has help her, i also contact this same man through his email address: solutionhome@outlook.com , i explain everything to him and he said i should not worry, he told me what to do and i kindly did it, after drinking the herbal medicine this great healer gave to me my greatest surprise was that i conceive in just a week after drinking the medicine, i am really happy right now cause i don't know what to say anymore, but if you are out there reading this testimony and you are having this same problem of getting pregnant for your husband, you have nothing to worry about kindly contact this DR OKO on his email: SOLUTIONHOME@OUTLOOK.COM OR PHONE HIM @ +2347032884728. he will help you just the same way he has help me.anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15686253615804680099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-70622121927095569702015-01-04T16:23:42.675-05:002015-01-04T16:23:42.675-05:00wow, what a great miracle that happen in my life a...wow, what a great miracle that happen in my life after 11years of bareness, have done a lot of medical test and treatment no one comes out with good result until i saw a post about this great man called Priest Onome of priestonomeherbaltemple@outlook.com in barycenter.com who really did a great miracle in life which make me 3 weeks pregnant after he cast a pregnancy spell for me that cost me $510 , at first sending the money was a big problem because i was thinking it was a scam,but my co-worker told me to give him a try and i did .Today am happy because am 3weeks pregnant.Thank you priest onome,for more info about priest onome contact him today via his email address: priestonomeherbaltemple@outlook.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10633354899253091772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-84329591555229140292014-12-13T08:27:49.376-05:002014-12-13T08:27:49.376-05:00My name is Beavis Christina ,i never new i will be...My name is Beavis Christina ,i never new i will be pregnant right from the day one of bareness ,because have visited many hospital for the past 7 years for cue but i found my self with negative result about my solutions, just last month here when i saw priest onome contact (priestonomeherbaltemple@outlook.com)on a blog page posted by Barry Marta about how Priest Onome help her to get pregnant i copy his email along side with the testimony to show my husband and he said we should just give this last try to see if it workout good or not and today am here sharing my testimony about Priest Onome because am 2weeks pregnant after he cast a pregnancy spell for me that only took 48hours and he told me to sleep with my husband after the end of my period and i did according to his instructions.now am very happy to tell the whole world about Priest Onome because indeed his a great man.contact him today with is email address : priestonomeherbaltemple@outlook.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11903244913955572636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-16831765509099047022014-12-07T00:59:53.915-05:002014-12-07T00:59:53.915-05:00I am telling the whole world my testimony cos i ca...I am telling the whole world my testimony cos i cant keep shot,because this is just too much i am happy with two bouncing baby boys if not for God almighty and prince onome who made this happen what would i have done ,thank you once again prist onome .normally i dont believe in such drugs before but after using priest onome roots and herbs i started believing in it.my advise to women out there seeking for the fruit of the womb,please try this herbal drugs,it works and it is real.it works for me and i believe it gonna work for you too with full assurance for details and help email via"; priestonomeherbaltemple@outlook.com<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13452339607409999396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-66398112062580648492014-11-18T03:20:57.457-05:002014-11-18T03:20:57.457-05:00But if these photos spark any one person into the ...But if these photos spark any one person into the action of protecting a human life, then that is a good thing. Abortion is a reality. I'm now no longer blinded to that reality. All adults should see abortion photos before they stand so unquestioningly pro abortionlifeisagifthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15705023401532384035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-31831639530925676382014-11-18T03:16:05.352-05:002014-11-18T03:16:05.352-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.lifeisagifthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15705023401532384035noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-74617333159205578872014-03-26T21:33:07.002-04:002014-03-26T21:33:07.002-04:00Actually, she's absolutely right. Innocent peo...Actually, she's absolutely right. Innocent people ARE being traumatized by this site. I am 20 weeks pregnant and ran a google search to find out big my baby was. Try this. The images are littered with gore! Instead of cute, developing babies, I was subjected to this. I am LIVID. I followed the photo to this page. I cannot even leave my browsing history up after searching to see how big my baby is because my innocent 7 year old daughter may also wind up subjected to these photos. I STRONGLY disagree that most women who google to see how big their baby is at 20 weeks are NOT seeking abortion -- they are excited moms-to-be like me who are VICTIMIZED by sites like this. These photos should require specific consent so that you can indeed reach your "target audience". All you succeeded in doing was ruining my excitement over seeing how big my baby is this week. Jadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17477734232379600224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-48435493622950637412014-03-26T21:20:07.248-04:002014-03-26T21:20:07.248-04:00You poor thing. I am so sorry that you are faced w...You poor thing. I am so sorry that you are faced with such a difficult choice. PLEASE disregard the misleading information here that is only intended to serve the interests of a particular pro-birth interest group. This is a personal choice and probably the most difficult you will ever face -- especially considering this is a baby you planned for. Talk with MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS who are specifically trained to deal with trisomy 13 pregnancies. Ultimately the choice is yours and it is a personal one. Don't listen to rubbish about the baby being ripped into pieces - talk to a doctor about what the babies quality of life would be if you chose to continue. Find out what types of medical treatments are available to treat the child's condition. If YOU and your partner choose to continues, start gathering information on how you will be able to obtain (find/afford) said treatments. I cannot stress how important it is to gather as much information as you can from MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS who have no hidden agendas and only your best interest in mind. If you choose not to continue, that does NOT make you a bad person. You are a person who is faced with a horrible choice and NOBODY has the right to judge you. There are support groups and counseling experts available to help you cope with the emotional aspects. Whatever your choice, I wish you so much love. You will be fine!Jadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17477734232379600224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-49077902570899977702014-03-26T20:34:57.620-04:002014-03-26T20:34:57.620-04:00While I am strongly pro-choice, I generally have n...While I am strongly pro-choice, I generally have no issues with the opinions of pro-life people. My only complaint (and I feel this is extremely valid) is this: I am 20 weeks pregnant and can't wait to meet him. Each week, I eagerly look to see how much my baby boy has grown. But each week that I google to see my baby's size, I am greeted with gory, grotesque, militated babies which are intended only to shock and disturb women who may be considering abortion. I find this unacceptable. These photos should NOT be mixed in with general searches and should only be made available to those whom are directly seeking them. I should not be forced to see a beheaded baby or it's dissected bits because someone wants to torment abortion seekers. Seeing these pictures (which popped up when I typed 'how big is a 20 week fetus' " completely spoils my joy and deters me from being able to enjoy seeing my baby grow. Please keep in mind that a HUGE number of women searching to find the size if their fetuses are pregnant moms like me who want their babies and don't deserve to be subjected to barbaric photos. Jadehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17477734232379600224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-8078060032033867882012-12-01T23:04:59.049-05:002012-12-01T23:04:59.049-05:00nooks, fetuses are not home entertainment systems ...nooks, fetuses are not home entertainment systems that get "hooked up." They develop and mature. <br /><br /><a href="http://anes-som.ucsd.edu/VP%20Articles/Topic%20C.%20Anand.pdf" rel="nofollow">Neurodevelopmental Changes of Fetal Pain</a> reviews studies from the point of view of a physician that might have cause to perform procedures on a fetus not slated for abortion but rather slated for birth. The fetal response to what we would considered a pain-causing stimulus indicates that he or she is being caused stress but the stimulus. Exposing these fetuses to painful stimuli can actually cause damage to the nervous system. <br /><br />From the perspective of somebody who intends to heal, rather than destroy, the fetus, it is considered wiser to err on the side of caution and to proceed with the presumption that the fetus will be responding to a painful stimulus as if, indeed, that stimulus is causing distress.<br /><br />One can easily understand that doctors who participate in and/or support abortion do not want to believe that the movements of the fetus as if to avoid the instruments is a response to pain. They would not want to believe that abortion -- which is an undeniably violent act -- causes pain to the fetus. It's difficult enough for them to cope emotianally and morally with the torn body parts, with seeing lands and feet and intestines and faces. Were they for a moment to allow themselves to believe that the fetus can feel what is happening as those parts are being twisted off would be utterly unbearable.<br /><br />Consider what dogs they have in the fight before you simply take their pronouncements as objective.Christina Duniganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04785550737493692252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-63169831567572515222012-12-01T16:57:31.538-05:002012-12-01T16:57:31.538-05:00Some info on fetal pain...this article below at en...Some info on fetal pain...this article below at end of my post is taken from the journal of the american medial association suggests there is no conscious perception of pain until about 23 weeks. <br /><br />quote from the article:<br />"Fetal awareness of noxious stimuli requires functional thalamocortical connections. Thalamocortical fibers begin appearing between 23 to 30 weeks’ gestational age, while electroencephalography suggests the capacity for functional pain perception in preterm neonates probably does not exist before 29 or 30 weeks."<br /><br />The foetus is a developing entity and so not all 'connections' and structures are fully formed at 8 weeks, 14 weeks, etc. Of course, the later it is in the pregnancy, the more fully developed is the foetus. I agree that there is a point where the foetus can feel pain and would suffer. At this point I would not want an abortion. But if a woman wants an abortion and is concerned about fetal pain, then she should be informed as much as possible about what is going on with the development of the foetus, not just make assumptions because it looks human. Easier said that done I know. I am 19 weeks pregnant and I wouldn't consider abortion. But that's me... <br /><br />http://jama.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=201429nooks12https://www.blogger.com/profile/02445922403413796595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-45535623656944622022012-02-20T10:32:58.555-05:002012-02-20T10:32:58.555-05:00Thank you so much for your words of encouragement,...Thank you so much for your words of encouragement, Kaylynn. Congrats on the new little one, and remember that prolife centers are there for you even if you're not an abortion-minded woman whose baby they "rescued." Our local Birthright comes through with diapers and formula and baby clothes all the time for women who are strapped for cash.Christina Duniganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04785550737493692252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-76853359685572224372012-02-20T01:03:13.080-05:002012-02-20T01:03:13.080-05:00I'm a 28 year old mother of three girls,& ...I'm a 28 year old mother of three girls,& I've always been anti abortion, but when my youngest was only 7 months old, I was pregnant once again... I looked into early abortion, but knew that this little one was already mine. Your blogs gave me so much more courage and strength to dust off, and man up (so to speak) <br />I am now almost 21 weeks pregnant with my 4th daughter, were due July 4th. What a day to celebrate the independendance of life! I thank you for the public service that you provide... <br />You've probably saved more babies lives than you'll ever know.Kaylynn.Spradlinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07824079049077164900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-37640205779766903122012-01-19T15:18:08.215-05:002012-01-19T15:18:08.215-05:00In addition to the link Christina gave above, I al...In addition to the link Christina gave above, I also have a variety of links dealing with "difficult prenatal diagnoses, stillbirth, and child loss" on my blog <a href="http://womantowomancbe.wordpress.com/" rel="nofollow">here</a> (scroll down and look on the right for the title); I hope these help you.Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10118292622669944944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-12912975004608800652012-01-18T13:45:42.634-05:002012-01-18T13:45:42.634-05:00Shrutidipti62, think about what you said -- you do...Shrutidipti62, think about what you said -- you don't want your baby to suffer. Do you know how a D&E is performed? The doctor reaches in and literally twists the limbs off your living baby until he dies of blood loss. Can you live the rest of your life knowing you did this to your child because some doctor told you that this would some how prevent your baby from suffering?<br /><br />Even if they opt for a lethal injection in the heart to kill the baby before they start pulling arms and legs off, the injection method they use is one the ASPCA will not allow its shelters to use when putting down a stray dog. I don't think you would be preventing suffering by opting for this, and again, you would be living the rest of your life with the knowledge that you signed on the dotted line for your child to be painfully put to death.<br /><br />Go to the <a href="http://www.livingwithtrisomy13.org/" rel="nofollow">Living With Trisomy 13</a> web site to network with other parents who have nurtured their children, and let them help you through this in a loving way that respects your child and provides you with the support you need.Christina Duniganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04785550737493692252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-25342969729614985232012-01-17T18:12:54.416-05:002012-01-17T18:12:54.416-05:00Also, this was a planned pregnancy. This is not b...Also, this was a planned pregnancy. This is not birth control because of carelessnessShrutidipti62https://www.blogger.com/profile/04333641842191264864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-501913012332343732012-01-17T18:11:31.597-05:002012-01-17T18:11:31.597-05:00I am pregnant at 18 weeks. My baby has Trisomy 13...I am pregnant at 18 weeks. My baby has Trisomy 13. The DR's say it is safe to have a DE. I don't want my baby to suffer. Is it wrong for me to have a D and E? Please answer honestly. I need help!Shrutidipti62https://www.blogger.com/profile/04333641842191264864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-42895924106485930422011-12-29T10:15:10.733-05:002011-12-29T10:15:10.733-05:00Bloggernaut, the likelihood that someone you descr...Bloggernaut, the likelihood that someone you describe would accidentally come to a blog like this and be traumatized is minimal; the likelihood is much greater that someone seeking an abortion at that stage of pregnancy would come across this blog and potentially decide not to have an abortion. I'd likely have nightmares and anxiety after viewing a website devoted to exposing the truth about the Holocaust, "honor killings", or even the wreck of the Titanic. But which is worse -- a website about abortion, or the fact that these abortions happen, and not just rarely, but with some frequency?<br /><br />Finally, a word about birth control options: check into "Natural Family Planning" or "Fertility Awareness Method" for natural alternatives to your current birth control methods (or lack thereof). I've never been on hormonal birth control of any form; my husband did use condoms early in our marriage, but hasn't used them in probably 7 years; we have two children, both of whom were conceived with ease, so we certainly are fertile; we have only 2 children and have been married almost 9 years. Essentially, you learn your body's signs of fertility, and avoid sex at that time (or use some barrier). Obviously, abstinence is the only 100% foolproof method of pregnancy prevention, but NFP or FAM can both be highly effective.Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10118292622669944944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8395646.post-16266193003388285362011-12-29T02:05:44.835-05:002011-12-29T02:05:44.835-05:00There are so many thoughts I get when reading all ...There are so many thoughts I get when reading all these comments. Plus my initial thoughts upon seeing this site. Death is death and it eventually happens to every one. Murder may be more unfair because it is deliberate. I do believe that an abortion given to someone who is carrying a baby as a product of incest sparks the most understanding. I do not believe all women who get abortions have a choice. That is why I do not like this website. What about the 15 year old girl who gets pregnant and her parents ( being her legal guardians and therefore deciding all medical decisions) make her get an abortion? Or what about the women in an abusive relationship who gets pregnant and knows during her pregnancy the abuse will get worse and after the child is born it too will be abused? Do these people deserve to come across a site like this? I don't think so. I do not believe abortion is morally right and I guess that is why I haven't ever chosen this option for myself. I've thought about it. I have a one year old I raised on my own for the first 16 months. I chose to have sex but I did not choose to be a single parent. I decided I didn't want another child til I was married and settled into a career. That did not happen. After two years of abstinence I got pregnant by my boyfriend.(after giving up the abstinence thing of course) I don't like condoms and am allergic to latex. I tried birth control years ago and became suicidal and depressed. I am kind of glad for both of these things because I don't really believe in preventing life. If you do not know that having sex may result in pregnancy you should not be having sex. I think cigarettes are just as bad as abortions. I think even people that decide not to have abortions can still be bad parents. Abuse, drugs, alcohol, abandonment. There are tons of ways of doing wrong to your kids but none of those problems will be solved by putting the offender down. The thing about morals is that everyone's are different. But hey what do I know at 2 am? That I'll most likely have nightmares and anxiety after reading this site. That the comments written have only further my feelings of hopelessness for society, for the world. But keep on keeping on cause that's all any of us can do, until we can't.bloggernauthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11575632835088797198noreply@blogger.com